Life in a housing community has many upsides. Over the years, we develop relationships with our neighbors, old and new, and it is rather essential, as we look out for each other when it comes to safety and property maintenance. But these relationships can sour over time and in some instances, start on the wrong foot. A branch is too long, a party too loud, a trash bin sitting in the wrong place…the list goes on.
And I do understand people’s frustration when things don’t go as planned or we feel a situation is out of our control. We simply refuse to allow anything to disturb our tranquility and disrupt our somewhat perceived ideal life.
But, with that kind of mindset, we let trivial things rob us of our peace and miss out on what a true community could look like. A network of people, looking out for each other and supporting each other in times of need.
Because you never know what people are going through. When we get to know our neighbors, we find out why they haven’t mowed their lawn or pulled their weeds in weeks. A recent loss, an illness or family troubles are often the reasons behind a neglected house.
So next time an issue comes up, instead of pointing our finger, maybe we can start a conversation by asking questions like, “How are you today? I see your tree needs trimming, do you need help with that?”
Better yet, why don’t we lend a hand and see what happens? Because, I bet it will be something good.